Get Him Back – Are You About Ready to Give Up?

Have you grown tired of trying to get him back? Does it seem like everything that you try to do to save your relationship backfires on you and you feel like your taking one step forwards and two steps back? Do you just feel like giving up and throwing in the towel at times and trying to move on with your life without him?

What you are feeling is perfectly normal and the reaction that you are getting from your boyfriend or husband is also perfectly normal. You might be saying “What! He’s acting like a child!” and you would be absolutely right.

The fact is that if you step back and look at the situation and the relationship dynamics you will understand why your man is acting like this in spite of how nice you have been and all the concessions that you have tried to make. You have done anything and everything in your power to try to make him happy. And what do you get in return? You get attitude and a man that seems even more determined to destroy what was once a loving relationship.

Chances are you are pushing too much. While it is admirable and shows that you really do love your boyfriend or husband it isn’t going to get him back. By taking the reigns in the relationship and doing everything that you can to fix things you basically emasculate him in addition to making him feel that he doesn’t have control over the relationship.

You see, men like to fix things. If you are taking control and trying to fix things you are basically taking his job away from him. Take the toolbelt off and leave it where he can find it and you might be surprised by what happens.

In addition, by running in circles trying to come up with solutions to what he says the problems are in your relationship you have taken control of the relationship out of his hands. If he is going to come back to you it is going to have to be in his time and on his terms. You can make things easy for him but try to hand the reigns over to him in a subtle way.

You do know that it is possible to control the relationship while giving him the illusion of control himself, right? As a woman, you know that there are ways to manipulate and control a man without him even knowing what is going on and that male psychology is an effective way to bring about your desired outcome.

Think of it this way. Have you ever seen a bunch of men together, especially around women? How difficult is it to get a guy to do something really stupid like pick up an object that is approximately his own body weight? What would you do to get a guy to enter into an activity in which he is likely to injure himself? A likely tactic would be to suggest that said object could not be picked up by a mere mortal and you would see every guy within earshot trying to pick the object up, even if his buddies were writhing on the ground in agony from a pulled groin muscle.

Can you see the wisdom in the above example? Can you see how powerful the use of male psychology can be and how it could be used to motivate a man to do something that he might not ever think of doing otherwise?

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