Do You Wonder If He Still Loves You After The Breakup?

Since your breakup you might wonder if your ex is even the same man that you once loved. You might even have moments when you absolutely hate him for what he has done to you and how he treats you these days. He has become a monster and, for the life of you, you can’t understand what has happened to him… what has happened to your relationship and where the love went that you once shared. You teeter on the edge of giving up on him and saying that you don’t every want to see him again… and then you break down and cry out to the night for his love to return to you again.

The constant roller coaster ride of emotions and the tears fall like rain as you try to make sense of everything. In the quiet of the night you search your soul for him and the love that you are sure must still be there. Nothing makes sense and the only conclusion that comforts your heart is that he does still love you and that he will come back to you one day…

Love Never Dies – They say that love never dies. There is nothing in this universe that really ever dies. All power, energy and matter just changes shape. Wood degrades and become mulch on the forest floor or it is burnt and turned into heat and smoke and ask… and the love that your ex felt for you never goes away. No matter how hard he might try to hide it or deny it, that love that he has for you is still there. It is just buried under anger and fear and a pile of negative emotions that he uses to keep it under control and out of sight.

Like a frightened animal, he will hide this wound and deny its existence. He will say hurtful things and say that you were a mistake… that he never really loved you or that it was all just a game. Be cautioned that no amount of pleading or begging or even confrontation is going to open his heart and tear down the walls that he has built around himself to keep you out and that love inside. Like that frightened and wounded animal, he will lash out and the adrenaline will keep him moving and allow him to continue with his charade.

Can You Fan The Flames of Passion? – But how can you rescue that love? How can you fan the flames of desire and passion until it burst into that inferno that was your shared love for one another? How can you make him admit that he still loves you and bring him back to you again? The answer is time… not too much time but not too little time. I know… a little tricky there, isn’t it. But think of it this way… given enough time… perhaps years… he will heal and come to the conclusion all on his own that things could have worked out between the two of you and that he really did love you. But you don’t have years to wait and often life moves on… and it will for you and also for him unless you can help him to open up and see that love and passion once again. But how can you speed up the clock?

After some time and once the bad emotions have begun to ebb you can reach out to him. Try to connect with him again and slowly but surely remind him of the love that you shared in little ways. Laughter and warm memories can do their work in the moments that you will share and also in the hours after you part once you reconnect with him. In the quiet of his own night he will begin to feel again… his heart will begin to warm and glow for you again. At first he might resist but as loneliness creeps in he will allow himself to feel; telling himself that it’s OK and that there is no harm in reliving those happy times spent with you. The love and the memories last forever.

If you really do love your man and you do want to get him back. If you really do think that he might be the love of your life and you just want to be back in his arms again then you need to help him through this time. For the sake of your relationship and for the love of the man that you are devoted to… and for your own happiness… you owe it to yourself to carefully and patiently bring out the love that certainly still lies within his heart for you now and for all time. Don’t be the one that got away and don’t let him live with that regret that he should have tried harder. Show him what true love is and help him to feel love again.

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